In NLP coaching, when couples are seeking help in their romantic relationships, there are some key components necessary for them to be able to step into powerful positive changes and reconnection. First, they must both believe the relationship is worth saving, and next they must both be willing to do whatever it takes in their relationship.
Discovery and alignment of values are very important for a couple to be congruent with each other, both in the present and in moving forward together. Cleaning up negative emotions and negative anchoring can keep a couple from getting stuck in any previously unresolved issues of the past. Learning each others love strategies, which includes learning how to fulfill each other at the level of attraction and at the level of deep love helps couples to connect, bond and grow stronger together.